Here is a new list of Attributes you can use in making your list.

I am adding this list of attributes. Many of these could be used on either list according to your thoughts on the subject. If you have ideas about attributes that could be added to the list please post them I would love to hear what you think.

adventurous	conventional, cautious
aware of opportunities	does not see opportunities
beautiful	unattractive, deceptive
calm	excitable, nervous
children well-behaved	undisciplined children
comfortable financially	broke, spend thrift
completes tasks	leaves unfinished, leaves hanging
connected	disconnected
conscious of strengths, weakness	unconsious of abilities
considers you an equal	controlling
consistant	unpredcitable
constructive	destructive
conversational	quiet
creator	victim, destroyer
deliberate	reckless, haphazard
dependable	irresponsible
detail-oriented	does not sweat small stuff
determined	stubborn
disciplined	disorganized, negligent
dynamic	dull, boring, passive
educated	unsophisticated, uneducated
education exceeds family	less education than family
effective	incapable, ineffective
efficient	incompetant, ineffective
emotionally sound	unstable, crazy
employment success	job hopper, failer at work
energetic	agitated
entreprenurial	does not take risks
financially secure	broke
fit	fat, unhealthy, unfit
focused	scattered, unfocused
gentle	rough
giving	taking, self centered
goal oriented	directionless
good	evil
good cook	does not cook
good cummunicator	quiet,  non communicator
good housekeeper	messy, lazy, disorganized
good job	under employed, unemployed
good listener	verbose, conversation hog
graceful	awkward, careless
handsome	unattractive, deceptive
hard working	lazy
harmonious	disruptive
harmonious with ex	hates ex
harmonious work personal life	work  personal life conflict
has direction	unfocused, lost
has enough time	always behind, late
healthy, fit	poor health, unfit
helpful	meddling, interfering
homeowner	rentor
HWP	out of shape
imaginative	uncreative, unimaginative
improves self	accepts status quo
independent	dependant, subserviant
inner beauty	vain
innovator	copier
insightful	lacks insight
intellectual	ignorant, uneducated
intelligent	imbecile, stupid
intuitative	investigative
involved	obsessed, uninvolved
kind	mean, aggressive, cruel
knowledgable	uninformed, uneducated
leader	follower, manipulator
loyal	unfaithful
meets financial obgligations	non credit worthy
men who have men friends	too self centered for friends
modest	ostentatious, immodest
motivated	unmotivated, lazy
numerous friends	loner, few friends
observant	oblivious
organized	inefficient, disorganized
polite	rude, ill manneredd
predictable	undependable, unpredictable
professional	unskilled, laborer
psychologically strong	weak psychologically
reliable	irresponsible, untrustworthy
respected	scorned
responsible	irresponsible, lazy
results oriented	effort wasted
romantic	practical, unromantic
rugged	refined
sane	unstable, crazy
secure	vunerable
seeks self improvement	satisfied with self
self employed	has job
self-assured	hesitant, doubtful
sober	drunk
social drinker	professional ,excessive drinker
stable	irresponsible, unstable
stress free	often stressed
strives	struggles
substance free	user, drugs or alcohol
substance free	user, drugs or alcohol
success in immediate family life	lack of family harmony
successful	failure, unprofitable
supportive of family obligations	non- supportive, selfish
supportive of your goals	non- supportive, selfish
talented	unskilled
timely	always late
tough	weak
trustworthy	untrustworthy
virtious	deceptive, unreliable
visionary	visionless
well- behaved	illbehaved
well mannered	ill behaved, obnoxious
wine drinker	non drinker
women who have women friends	too self centered for friends